LittleRussian (original poster member #36658) posted at 1:14 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2024
Nearly 2 years ago now I posted that I'd found what seemed like a very lovely man and that so far so good.
So far so good has got a lot better and we got engaged at the weekend. I keep looking down at my left hand and grinning!
Thank you to everyone on here who has handed out advice and support. I've not been a very prolific poster over the years but I have read, and learned, a lot.
Me - firmly middle aged
Him XH - slightly younger (but not much!)
3 young adult children
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:36 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2024
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:25 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2024
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
2ManyMigraines ( member #61851) posted at 4:52 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2024
I don't post or comment a lot, but I wanted to say congratulations! How exciting!!
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:55 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2024
Congratulations! Many happy years to you both!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 10:32 PM on Wednesday, August 7th, 2024
Congratulations! Wishing you both the very best.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
ThisIsSoLonely ( Guide #64418) posted at 3:05 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2024
Congrats indeed! Always good to be able to put infidelity in the rear view mirror but even better to drive away from it completely!
You are the only person you are guaranteed to spend the rest of your life with. Act accordingly.
Constantly editing posts: usually due to sticky keys on my laptop or additional thoughts
Justsomeguy ( member #65583) posted at 9:44 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2024
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:55 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced 20
