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 EllieKMAS (original poster member #68900) posted at 7:26 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

I bought a new car today! I went through that Carvana place and my new wheels will be delivered a week from tomorrow Is crazy that you can buy a whole ass car online now...

I ended up going with a 2018 Mazda CX-3 in that gorgeous juicy red color so I also then know exactly what color my nails are gonna be next week LOL (OPI An Affair in Red Square - so fitting for so many reasons)

I just can't believe what a difference a couple years have made in my life. 2 years ago my credit was so shite I would have needed a co-signer to do this, but not having someone around bleeding me dry financially has allowed me to pay things off and turn things around more than I ever thought possible. Ellie is a happy girl today!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 7:28 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

Go Ellie!

Where are you going to drive your awesome self first?

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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DanielJK ( member #75654) posted at 7:38 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

NICE!

BH 51
STBXWW 53
2 daughters, 14 and 16
Filed for divorce 12/23/2020

After a year of hell I finally moved out (5/26/2021).
Divorce still pending.

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 EllieKMAS (original poster member #68900) posted at 7:40 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

Probably over to my mom's and then my sister's house... they are both so excited too LOL

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:20 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

Enjoy the new ride!!

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ZenMumWalking ( Guide #25341) posted at 8:40 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

You GO girl!!!!

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 9:10 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

Sweet, Ellie!! I love that Mazda shade of red!

DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 9:53 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

Nice! You are going to look amazing in it!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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 EllieKMAS (original poster member #68900) posted at 10:19 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

I love that Mazda shade of red!

Meeeee toooooo. Every time I see one driving around, it makes me think of that OPI nail polish (it's my favorite red). Oooooh, and I just got a new red lipstick too. Yassssssss!

Guys I know I'm dorktastic

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 10:23 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

Yesssss Ellie

WTG

Love the nail color choice.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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freetogonow ( member #57821) posted at 11:14 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

So proud of you!!!!

Yes it’s amazing how much money I have when someone’s not pillaging my finances. Funny how that goes

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Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 11:32 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021

Guys I know I'm dorktastic

Ellie

Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids

You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop

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AngelBetrayed ( member #28579) posted at 12:21 AM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021

Fabulous!! Embrace your inner dorkness

BW: Me 45 ( now 53 )
BH: Him 38. ( no longer relevant )
together 10 years, married 8 on DD
Reconciled for 6 years, Divorced
1 DD: 12
Confessed: February 26, 2010
PA 1.5 years with coworker MOW

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 6:25 AM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021

Congrats!

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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phmh ( member #34146) posted at 4:05 PM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021

Congratulations! This is why i stay on SI - to read success stories of people really thriving. Great job!!!

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

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Anna123 ( member #70908) posted at 7:47 PM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021

Congratulations! SO exciting!

What an awesome feeling and ditto on how money doesn't magically disappear once cheater free. (Any alcohol in the home also lasts far longer---)

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siracha ( member #75132) posted at 11:35 PM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021

Ellie is on fire !! A Firey red chariot to be exact !

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J707 ( member #63778) posted at 12:31 AM on Sunday, May 2nd, 2021

So awesome and congratulations! All those little steps you've done have brought you to this moment! Be proud!

It is amazing how much these people drain the finances isn't it? Enjoy your new ride! I've been eye balling Toyota Rav4's recently, just haven't pulled the trigger yet.

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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 2:14 AM on Sunday, May 2nd, 2021

Impressive!!

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 10 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

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gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 9:40 AM on Sunday, May 2nd, 2021

You drive your fine dorktastic arse with the red and the red and the red wherever you wanna go, girl!

Congratulations, I am so happy for you!

M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived

It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies

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