Topic is Sleeping.
Kayty (original poster new member #84665) posted at 9:32 AM on Friday, March 29th, 2024
I am *name removed* and I am stupid for keeping my cheater husband with me cheater for 5 years when I wa pregnant with both idiot baby of his I hate them all
[This message edited by SI Staff at 5:05 PM, Friday, March 29th]
straightup ( member #78778) posted at 10:35 AM on Friday, March 29th, 2024
Hi
If you are using your real name and home town rather than a pretend one, can I suggest you change that, before sharing more about your situation.
There are helpful people here. Stick around. Start reading from the healing library.
If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.
What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.
Mother Teresa
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 12:25 PM on Friday, March 29th, 2024
This is an anonymous forum. You have used your real name, and location. Please change this before he finds you here. He will use it against you.
You weren't stupid. You trusted he would change. Now that you know he won't, you can stake steps to divorce.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 12:27 PM on Friday, March 29th, 2024
I wa pregnant with both idiot baby of his I hate them all
You don't hate your children. You're in pain.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:22 AM on Saturday, March 30th, 2024
Hi, welcome to SI, when you are ready to share more of your story, there are many members here who are willing to support you.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 2:02 AM on Saturday, March 30th, 2024
Welcome to SI and sorry that you're here. There are some pinned posts at the top of the forum that have some great information for newbies. Also, there are some posts with bull's eye markers that are good. Additionally, the Healing Library has a lot of great info.
Infidelity is the worst. Please take care of yourself and your children at this time. Eat, rest, stay hydrated. You may wish to be tested for STDs/STIs because there are some terrible diseases that can get passed along. If you have trouble with anxiety, depression or sleep, see your doctor for meds. They can help you through this time.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Justsomeguy ( member #65583) posted at 3:05 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2024
Hey OP, How are you holding out?
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:55 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced 20
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 3:11 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2024
This is a thread I think is best allowed to sink away unless the original poster adds some usable content.
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
Topic is Sleeping.
