Thank you for your support and kind words. It's been an incredibly challenging time, but I'm determined to do what's best for my daughters and myself. I want to be a positive role model for them and ensure they grow up knowing the importance of honesty. I'm focused on making sure we all heal and move forward in a healthy way. Your encouragement means a lot to me. Stay strong as well!
Thank you for your understanding and support. It's been a tough journey, but I believe that staying true to my values and prioritising my daughter's well-being is the right path. You're right; this situation has been incredibly painful, and it's essential to focus on healing rather than getting caught up in emotions. I appreciate your words, and I'm determined to move forward positively, leaving behind those who have caused this pain.
I appreciate your input, and I've been reflecting on the situation deeply. While it's difficult to come to terms with, you make valid points. It's clear that trust has been shattered in both relationships, and it might be time to take the steps needed to move forward. It's a painful process, but ultimately, I want what's best for my well-being and that of my daughters. Thank you for your well wishes.
Thank you for your support. It's been a challenging journey, and I believe taking these steps is the best course of action for my healing and my daughters' well-being. Your encouragement means a lot.
You're absolutely right; the betrayal has been incredibly painful. Thank you for your words of support and encouragement. I'm committed to protecting my children and myself as we move forward. It will take time, but I believe we can heal and rebuild our lives.
Thank you so much for your kind words and support. It means a lot to me. I'm doing my best to be there for my daughters during this difficult time, and your encouragement means a great deal. I'll certainly keep your advice in mind about being kinder to myself and others. We're all in this together, and I'm grateful for the people who have shown us kindness and understanding.
You've really understood what I'm going through. You're spot on when you say I might have ignored some warning signs because I didn't want my marriage to end. It's been really tough dealing with the betrayal by both my STBXW and my ex-best friend.
I'm grateful for your point of view on how I initially reacted, especially when you mentioned that I wanted them to understand how much they hurt me. It's a complicated situation, and I'm still trying to figure out how to handle it. Your words remind me that I should focus on getting my life back on track and not just hope things will sort themselves out.
Thanks for being there for me and sharing your insights during this tough time.
I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for your message. Your understanding and support mean a lot to me during this challenging time. It's reassuring to hear your perspective and experiences, especially regarding severing connections and maintaining no contact. Your advice about handling potential situations with my STBXW is invaluable, and I will definitely take it to heart.
You're absolutely right about the love for the child I raised being a powerful force, and your words resonate deeply with me. I'll continue with my individual counselling and confront all my feelings head-on, as you wisely suggested.
Thank you once again for your kindness and well wishes. It means a great deal to me and my daughters.
I just wanted to say thanks for changing my username to something more positive. Your encouragement means a lot to me.Thank you.
I can't thank you enough for your understanding and support. It means the world to me, especially coming from someone who's faced similar challenges. I'm sorry to hear that you've gone through this as well and that it was such a difficult experience for you.
It's not easy for any of us, and emotions can sometimes get the best of us. Please know that I don't consider myself to be "handling it perfectly," but I'm doing my best to find my way through this mess. Your words of encouragement really boost my spirits, and I genuinely appreciate your kind wishes.
Let's both hope for brighter days ahead. Thanks again for your support.
I can't thank you enough for sharing your personal experiences with me. It's clear that you've endured an incredible amount of pain and complexity due to infidelity within your family and personal relationships. The fact that your mother's affair led to divorce and her subsequent marriage to the AP, along with the intertwined connections between your WH, the AP, and OBS, shows just how messy and tangled these situations can become.
Your story hits home, and I can feel the depth of your emotional journey in your words. It's humbling to hear how your perspective on infidelity has evolved through your own experiences. It's true that until you've walked in those shoes, it's nearly impossible to fully understand the complexities and choices that come with them.
I want you to know that your empathy and willingness to share your experiences mean the world to me. It helps me realise that I'm not alone in facing this pain and confusion.
Your words resonate deeply with me, and I want to express my heartfelt appreciation for your insight and wisdom. You're absolutely right; this journey has been a profound life lesson, one that I never anticipated. Your perspective on how I should approach my oldest is both emotional and thoughtful.
I fully acknowledge that I once believed I would react and feel differently in this situation, and your advice on admitting this to my eldest is profoundly important. You've touched upon the core of my emotions and the realisation that I was mistaken in my initial thoughts and words. I do still feel an overwhelming love for my eldest, and that love transcends any doubts or misconceptions I had.
You've reminded me that life is complicated, and we all make mistakes along the way. It's the grace and humility we exhibit in those moments that define our character. I appreciate your words, which serve as a valuable guide on this path of self-discovery and growth.
I appreciate your perspective on this matter. It seems you might not have read my recent update. Regarding my daughter's knowledge of her DNA, she is indeed aware that she doesn't share my DNA, and she insists that I am her real father. However, despite her words, I can sometimes sense doubt in her, which adds to the complexity of the situation.
Your insight about the timing and approach of discussing this with her is still valuable, as it aligns with my concerns that I have overwhelmed her with too much information all at once. I want to handle this situation with care and sensitivity, and your input reinforces the need for thoughtful consideration.
Once again, I appreciate your understanding and thoughtful response. Your support during this challenging time means a great deal to me.
I deeply appreciate your kind message. Knowing you see me as a great dad means a lot, as my daughters are my top priority. I'll take your advice to heart and be kind to myself. Maybe even plan a solo vacation when things settle. Your support is a tremendous source of strength. Thanks again for your warm wishes and encouragement.
I genuinely appreciate your thoughtful suggestions and guidance during this challenging time. It's comforting to know that there are practical steps I can take to navigate through this difficult situation.
Regarding the idea of recruiting my daughters into the business and making it a family venture, I want to mention that they already work with me, and I'm incredibly grateful for their help and contributions. It's a unique dynamic that we have, and I believe it brings us closer as a family.
The notion of scheduling a vacation with my daughters is also wonderful, and I believe it could help shift their focus towards the future. Your suggestion of planning a big trip with lots of activities sounds like a great way to create positive anticipation.
Your advice regarding the division of our assets makes sense, and I am committed to ensuring a fair outcome. It's important to note that my STBXW's approach has taken me by surprise, as she's expressed a willingness to give me almost anything I want if I speak with her first. She's also mentioned not wanting to hurt me, considering our shared history as parents to our daughters. This complexity adds an extra layer to the situation, and I will approach it carefully.
You've emphasised the importance of eventually talking to my STBXW, and your insight into preparing for that conversation through therapy and writing is invaluable. I'll keep this in mind, but I don't think I'm ready to talk to her yet.
Thank you for your encouragement and acknowledgement of my decision to let go of my employee. I'll certainly remain vigilant to protect my family from any potential harm.
Lastly, your suggestion to engage more with my daughters in activities that bring normalcy to their lives is deeply appreciated. Building those bonds and creating moments of normalcy are undoubtedly essential during this challenging period.
Your thoughtful advice provides a roadmap for moving forward, and I'm truly grateful for your support and insights.
Thank you so much for your kind words and understanding during this challenging time.
I appreciate your recognition of how I'm handling the situation with both of my daughters, giving them the time they need. Your words encourage me to stay patient and strong.
Thank you for your thoughtful message.
Your heartfelt message touches me deeply, and I can't express how much your support means to me and my daughters during this difficult time.
Your words about bravery and grace bring warmth to my heart. I truly hope that my actions will leave a positive and lasting impact on my daughters, and I'll always strive to be the best father I can be.
Your advice about not dwelling on the past is something I needed to hear, and I'll work on being proud of how I'm handling the present. Your encouragement is a beacon of light in these challenging moments.
It's heartening to know that even though we may be scattered across the globe, there are friends like you who offer their kindness and support. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being one of those friends.
I want to extend my apologies if I've overlooked any of your replies. Your messages are important to me. Your understanding is greatly appreciated.