TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 10:03 PM on Sunday, July 5th, 2015
NPD....the only illness where the patient gets left alone and everyone else gets treatment.
NoMorDeceit in S/D about divorcing a narcissist.
Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:19 PM on Saturday, July 11th, 2015
Apparently, walking around with your head up your ass eventually causes irreversible dain bramage!
Bahaha! Loveherstill in D/S.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
funnelcakes ( member #45249) posted at 3:14 PM on Friday, July 31st, 2015
Feeling a burning sensation? Could be 'cause LonelyDad has a suggestion for RoomMate in General!
If I just can figure out where one of those more local OM(s) live im going to nuke his house with homemade dildo rockets.
d-day in August of 2014, when I was SAHM 34 weeks pregnant with kid #3
A year of incontinent alcoholic cheater word salad and shitweasely blameshifting during R/S
I got a job and busted a move with three kids to a 1BR apt
D final 4/27/17.
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 4:48 PM on Friday, July 31st, 2015
Neveragain2013 in D/S answering what a BH should get his STBXWW for her b-day:
LOL. Yeah I'd get her a gift, alright.
One of those 10-visit punch cards she can use at the STD Clinic downtown. Each time she goes they punch her card. After 10 visits, she gets the 11th visit free.
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 2:29 AM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2015
Changemaker, stating what we all already know in our hearts:
Cell phones and camping go together like toothpaste and orange juice; not on my watch!
MakingMyFuture ( member #43530) posted at 7:41 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2015
PlanNine in General on the 'What one question would you ask WS if you could get an honest answer'
"Are you not who you think you are, or not who you say you are? It's an important distinction, because it's the difference between being stupid and delusional in the first case, and just plain evil in the second."
brilliant!
When people show you who they really are, believe them - Maya Angelou
BW: 43 (me) WH: 42 (him)
DD-13, DS-11
DDay 1 = 1/13, DDay2 = 7/14 (False R), D 4/15
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 10:05 PM on Monday, August 10th, 2015
Well.....I am done arranging the deck chairs on the Titanic.
Chimproller, who has finally had enough of her STBXBF's lies.
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
oldtimer97 ( member #2365) posted at 3:50 AM on Thursday, August 13th, 2015
This topic got quite a few funny responses:
Topic: Physical signs they are lying started 7/7/2015
Husburned
During my WW's affair, you could tell she was lying due to air being forced through her larynx and shaped into different sounds by altering her oral cavity.
LostMyPrince
OMG Risky...mine does the same...once he gets cornered he runs to the bathroom..over and over. Gives true meaning to " when the shit hits the fan " lol
ADryHeat
For my STBX it's always the pupils. They dilate like the cervix before birth, but the only thing he's bearing is a load of bullshit and fuckwaddery.
Vroom
Bonus comedy answer- a surefire physical sign they are lying is when they sit down at a computer and type "How to convince my wife I'm not lying" and "How to lie convincingly" into Google, then forget to clear their browser history. That's a major tell.
[This message edited by oldtimer97 at 9:54 PM, August 12th (Wednesday)]
“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou
To save a marriage, you must be willing to lose the marriage.
lilies21 ( member #35833) posted at 9:08 PM on Thursday, August 13th, 2015
When you are a freak magnet, Screw dating. Get a dog. They're loyal.
HurtingandLost in New Beginnings under the post "Ah, the joys of dating after divorce".
Me: BS, 30s.
One son.
Many D-Days for excessive porn, Craigslist ads, and EAs/PAs.
Happily divorced since September 2015.
MakingMyFuture ( member #43530) posted at 6:21 AM on Thursday, August 27th, 2015
From IrishgirlVA responding on the "Ohhh She's a classy one...." thread in Divorced/Separation
There is a really bad taste in my mouth. Is it?... Could it be?....
Yup. It's confirmed. It's puke.
[This message edited by MakingMyFuture at 12:22 AM, August 27th (Thursday)]
When people show you who they really are, believe them - Maya Angelou
BW: 43 (me) WH: 42 (him)
DD-13, DS-11
DDay 1 = 1/13, DDay2 = 7/14 (False R), D 4/15
MakingMyFuture ( member #43530) posted at 11:27 AM on Friday, August 28th, 2015
Funnelcakes entire rant in Off Topic called 'My Hot Ass'.
Go to the bathroom before you read it so you don't pee on yourself!
When people show you who they really are, believe them - Maya Angelou
BW: 43 (me) WH: 42 (him)
DD-13, DS-11
DDay 1 = 1/13, DDay2 = 7/14 (False R), D 4/15
Snapdragon ( member #4286) posted at 6:35 PM on Saturday, September 5th, 2015
Everyone may have baggage, but healthy people don't live out of their suitcases, KWIM?
~NIK in NB
Perfect
Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink
funnelcakes ( member #45249) posted at 8:25 PM on Sunday, September 20th, 2015
TrustGone in "Sticker Shock" in S/D:
"He wound up losing everything and then some in the end and it couldn't have happened to a more deserving person."
d-day in August of 2014, when I was SAHM 34 weeks pregnant with kid #3
A year of incontinent alcoholic cheater word salad and shitweasely blameshifting during R/S
I got a job and busted a move with three kids to a 1BR apt
D final 4/27/17.
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 2:00 PM on Friday, September 25th, 2015
Abbondad in S/D on thread called "Ideology Issues - Christianity" regarding expecting an apology from his Ex for the A
Yeah, I'm still puffing the pipe of hopium.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
Loukas ( member #47354) posted at 9:01 PM on Friday, September 25th, 2015
Devotedman...I think the quote speaks for itself!
You need to ask your MC beforehand whether the MC believes that you can push her onto a strange dick or whether she needs to own that action completely herself in spite of any marriage problems.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:15 PM on Tuesday, September 29th, 2015
Catwoman encouraging a member to focus on her life and the future rather than what her ex is doing -
There's a reason why the rear-view mirror is small and the windshield is large.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 10:54 AM on Friday, October 16th, 2015
When it comes to SI cards, glitter or not, I'm Martha Freaking Stewart, Hallmark, and your favorite scotch rolled into one glittery awesome man-bomb.
MadOfScars on the SI Christmas Card thread...love it!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 2:59 PM on Friday, October 16th, 2015
Hurtbuthopeful35 in Recon responding to when should we stop talking about the A
Healing from the past by dealing with it in the present is beneficial to your future
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 3:12 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2015
I haven't poked my head in this thread for some time.....some of you guys are so clever!
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:31 PM on Saturday, November 21st, 2015
My wife's internal fracking process extracts more energy from a cup of ice cream than nuclear fission.
still-living on the fart thread in Recon. MAN I haven't laughed this hard in a while....
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
