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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:44 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2019

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8442171
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:32 PM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2019

again

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8456937
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:15 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2019

and again

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8468707
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:18 PM on Thursday, December 12th, 2019

and again

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8481361
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:47 PM on Thursday, January 9th, 2020

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8493738
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 10:37 AM on Saturday, March 7th, 2020

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8521128
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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 10:57 PM on Friday, March 27th, 2020

Bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

posts: 6127   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 8527042
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thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 4:35 PM on Monday, March 30th, 2020

BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUMP!!!!!!!!!

ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman

"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis

As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...

posts: 4480   ·   registered: May. 2nd, 2017   ·   location: Vancouver, WA
id 8527606
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:50 PM on Sunday, April 26th, 2020

I'll see that bet and ... wait ... where am I?

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8536263
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:23 PM on Friday, May 8th, 2020

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8540570
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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 4:22 PM on Tuesday, July 28th, 2020

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8567346
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:12 PM on Wednesday, September 30th, 2020

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8592999
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:25 PM on Friday, December 18th, 2020

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8617798
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:46 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8630869
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, May 11th, 2021

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8658607
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, June 18th, 2021

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8668216
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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 2:25 PM on Monday, September 13th, 2021

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posts: 10034   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2002
id 8688267
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:11 AM on Saturday, February 19th, 2022

Bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8717269
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emergent8 ( Guide #58189) posted at 5:06 PM on Thursday, February 24th, 2022

This is such an important post. I remember reading it over and over again when I was a new BS. I wonder if we could pin it? If not, I’m going to save the link so I can bump it myself.

Me: BS. Him: WS.
D-Day: Feb 2017 (8 m PA with married COW).
Happily reconciled.

posts: 2169   ·   registered: Apr. 7th, 2017
id 8718536
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:44 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022

Bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30455   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8729353
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