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I've wrote and deleted a couple of posts already.I don't know what to narrow it all down to in an open post. I found out 2 weeks ago my long term partner of over 10 years had a year long affair, his wife was the one that told me. Just struggling with alot and if anyone wants to connect feel free to PM. I do better 1 on 1 I guess I'm just really guarded right now.

I'm so sorry that you're hurting.

I know it's hard to process all of this but you are safe and anonymous here. Read the information in The Healing Library section. As crazy as things feel right now, what you're experiencing is a normal reaction to a traumatic situation. Many of us have been through it.

You should share your story in "Just Found Out." The collective support of the group can be much more helpful than any single user.

PLEASE read the guidelines.
Soliciting PM’s is NOT ALLOWED

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I am locking this thread pending review with SI Staff.
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Random321 – we don’t know anything about you beyond your first post on this site, and that is the way we want things to be. SI respects anonymity. We – or any other poster here – doesn’t know if you are sharing the truth or if you are simply phishing or trolling. The more you share of your story, the more responses you get here online and the more you contribute – all that earns you more trust.

Anybody that responds here and offers Random123 any info to communicate directly – PLEASE keep in mind the risk you are opening yourself up to. We here on SI can in no way protect you, and you could be placing your anonymity at risk.