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Am I a bad person? Anyone else do this? Long

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BlackRaven ( member #74607) posted at 7:37 PM on Sunday, May 30th, 2021

Why not take it all (why should you have to sort and shred?), put it in boxes, and leave it on the lawn (where it won't get wet).

Give him ample notice of a week or so, (let him know there are photos in there) of a specific day or weekend to pick it up when you'll be away. Tell him if he doesn't come get it during that window, it goes to trash.

Document it all, so you're in the clear if he ever comes after you. And if you can have a camera on the lawn to ensure he doesn't do any vandalism, that might be a good idea.

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 thebighurt (original poster member #34722) posted at 12:51 AM on Tuesday, June 1st, 2021

Well, BlackRaven, I will not contact him in any manner under any circumstances and if he was ever to set foot on my property, I would call 911. He would definitely not be "invited" to pick up his things and I will make no more effort than to take them with my things for shredding.

With any luck, some woman's H will find them and shoot him and those things I have not yet included in what I took to be shredded will no longer matter.

When I look at the way I responded here is what made me ask if this makes me a bad person.

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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