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 Fablegirl (original poster member #56784) posted at 1:21 AM on Saturday, February 13th, 2021

I am beyond excited. I found a place for me and DD!!

To circle back a bit, I have been struggling to find a place to live. For the past 24 years I have lived on my XWH's family 60 acre farm. I have loved it here, always. Loved the mud, the cold, the long gravel drive that stayed frozen most of the winter. I didn't care.

XWH and I operated a small stable, there were always parties and gatherings with friends. It was hard for me to think about leaving because I thought I would die here. The house belongs to XWH and his relatives. They have loved having me here and we got along in spite of the divorce, but farm was also dying -- falling into disrepair, fences falling down, fallen trees everywhere. It was also time to go because DD is off to college in the fall.

But I found a 2 bedroom, 2 bath apartment up the road over a beautiful barn. I even knew the original owners at one time. There were 32 people vying for the apartmetn but I secured it today with a deposit. Best of all the new owners are in the same line of work as me. I am filled with joy. So many places fell through or didn't feel right. This one did immediately.

I can't wait.

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 1:35 AM on Saturday, February 13th, 2021

Yay!!!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 2:44 AM on Saturday, February 13th, 2021

Congrats!

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 6:24 AM on Saturday, February 13th, 2021

Oh yay!! So happy for you!!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

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Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 7:39 AM on Saturday, February 13th, 2021

That’s really fantastic news Fablegirl. Best of luck on your new beginning and keep us posted

Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids

You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 6:26 AM on Sunday, February 14th, 2021

That's wonderful! Very happy for you!

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:30 PM on Sunday, February 14th, 2021

I would LOVE to live in a place like that. Congratulations on your new beginning!

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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skeetermooch ( member #72169) posted at 6:19 PM on Sunday, February 14th, 2021

Sounds lovely! Congratulations!! Enjoy your new home so much!!!

Me: BS 56 on DDay 1 - 7/2019 DIVORCED - 1/2021

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Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 1:24 PM on Monday, February 15th, 2021

Congratulations! What a blessing. Enjoy your new home.

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WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 1:31 PM on Monday, February 15th, 2021

This is awesome!!! I know your anxiety about living arrangements has gone on for a while. I'm so happy that this is settled for you. You kept at it and made it happen! I hope you feel great personal satisfaction at your accomplishment.

Yaaay! Onward Fablegirl!

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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sideways ( new member #41531) posted at 11:23 AM on Tuesday, February 16th, 2021

Hi Fablegirl - That's great that you have your own place lined up and that you like it so much. I feel very lucky to have found my own living situation that I like, now that I am separated. I think it's super valuable to have a place that works for you and makes you feel good and not the opposite.

Many congrats!!

me: BH, mid fiftiesSeparated 12/2020

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