Topic is Sleeping.
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 5:09 AM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
Hope you have a wonderful day! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 12:00 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 3:04 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
Happy Birthday my friend! Hope you have a great day and all that pablum people say 
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 3:40 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 5:30 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 5:57 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
Happiest Birthday to thee!
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:10 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
maise ( member #69516) posted at 6:41 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:10 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
Happy birthday MH, and thanks for all you for us.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 9:15 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
Happy, Happy Birthday, MH! Hope it's a great day.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:03 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2021
Happy Birthday MH. 🎂
And many thanks for all that you do.
Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA
Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
HoldingTogether ( member #29429) posted at 5:21 AM on Sunday, January 3rd, 2021
Us-Reconciled.
You keep waiting for the dust to settle, and then, one day you realize... This is it, that dust is your life going on around you.
BigBlueEyes ( member #71441) posted at 11:03 AM on Sunday, January 3rd, 2021
Happy belated birthday MH 🎉🥳🎉
Me- BW, 47
Multi Dday's,
DB A's x 2 BFF
Multi ONS's, Online shit.
Serial cheat, Abuser,
D 18.02.20
Stay strong, just because it’s hard today, doesn’t mean that next week it won’t get easier!!
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 2:09 PM on Sunday, January 3rd, 2021
Happy Birthday MH!!! Hope you had a great one.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:06 PM on Sunday, January 3rd, 2021
..can't begin to thank you and DS for this incredible lifeline to thousands of people (you know the number 
) on this 'Titanic' of human disasters. Truly, 'life and death' consequences.
Hoping you had a good B-day and got to float your boat. Nice nautical themed cake, by the way!
smy
P.S... a poster called you 'OLD'? Doesn't he get banned for that?? 
[This message edited by somanyyears at 7:50 PM, January 3rd (Sunday)]
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 3:57 PM on Monday, January 4th, 2021
To quote Wayne:
We're not worthy!
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
MangledHeart ( Webmaster) posted at 6:58 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2021
Thank you for the birthday wishes! I don't feel any older.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
imokay ( member #3522) posted at 3:17 AM on Friday, January 15th, 2021
Happy belated MH. Just popped in for the first time in a while and see it's your birthday.
I can't begin to thank you enough for this site that I needed so desperately 17 years ago. (Where have the years gone??)
Anyway, I hope your birthday was a great one!!
Me: BS - 58 now
Him: WS - 60 now
Married 21 years at time of A
EA/PA that lasted 10 months.
DD: 2/10/02
Fully reconciled.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.
Topic is Sleeping.
