InkHulk (original poster member #80400) posted at 1:06 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2024
Had our first official court appearance today. I’m feeling really hopeful that the process of getting divorced is not going to be as hellish as it could be. I feel light, hopeful. There are still things to be settled, but it’s happening, as it needs to.
People are more important than the relationships they are in.
JasonCh ( member #80102) posted at 1:32 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2024
It is a lot InkHulk. i hope it goes as smoothly as it can for you and your kids. Peace.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 2:39 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2024
I hope things go smoothly for you, IH. The light at the end of the tunnel - and it isn't a train.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Notsogreatexpectations ( new member #85289) posted at 2:54 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2024
In the sixth century BC, Lao Tzu said that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Here’s to every step you take to a better future!
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:32 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2024
Ink -
Sending positive mojo for a smooth process and peace for you in the near future.
[This message edited by BearlyBreathing at 4:33 PM, Tuesday, December 3rd]
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 11:43 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2024
Another one here for hoping that all goes smoothly. We had a few blips but for the most part it was business and just putting one foot in front of the other. The worst part of D was paying for it, but it has been worth every penny ;)
fBS/fWS(me):51 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(21) DS(18)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorced 8/8/24
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 1:36 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2024
Step by step, Ink. I'm glad you've figured out your path.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
