Hippo16 ( member #52440) posted at 12:13 AM on Friday, February 27th, 2026
There's no troubled marriage that can't be made worse with adultery."For a person with integrity, there is no possibility of being unhappy enough in your marriage to have an affair, but not unhappy enough to ask for divorce."
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:25 PM on Friday, February 27th, 2026
I'm so sorry. Looks like a good lawyer is your best next step.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
d-day - 12/22/2010 Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 1:20 AM on Sunday, March 1st, 2026
I'm sorry. I'm with sisoon on this one. It is time for a good lawyer.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 8:10 AM on Monday, March 2nd, 2026
You can see he has serious impulse control issues. If he sees jt, he wants it and he gets it.
Whether it’s money or food or anything — you are right. He’s a child. You know it. Your kids know it.
Time to take the necessary steps to secure your future. I would invest any $ in yourself to get to a better place where you can earn a decent wage.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
