Topic is Sleeping.
Notagain1 (original poster new member #78464) posted at 11:30 PM on Monday, July 26th, 2021
I have a divorce date of Sept.16, two days after our 31st wedding anniversary and 6 months, 10 days after DDay! I know it's for the best, but I am pissed AH shows nothing still. Of course I fell back to my darn co-dependent ways..crying arguing....I really need to get back to working my 12 step program and get working on step 4 to heal myself and change my reaction.
stubbornft ( member #49614) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, July 26th, 2021
Having a date is great, I think you are doing well. I read your bio, I am so sorry he did this to you once you reconciled from before. You are strong, I am proud of you for filing! Hang in there!!!!
Me: BS 40 Him: WS 51 He cheated with massage parlor sex workersDday 01/19/2021
Kicked him out in 2021 - life is better on the other side. Moved on with the help of a wonderful therapist.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:58 AM on Tuesday, July 27th, 2021
It’s hard to just walk away when you are emotionally connected. But you know it’s never going g to work out and he’s just not marriage material now.
Hang in there. It gets better.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 10 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Notagain1 (original poster new member #78464) posted at 3:23 AM on Tuesday, July 27th, 2021
Everyone says it gets better. It is very hard to believe that today. I'm so down I dont even care if I get anything from him on the other side. Anything I would get feels like he's buying me off.
stubbornft ( member #49614) posted at 3:27 AM on Tuesday, July 27th, 2021
Go to therapy. Pick up a hobby or exercising. Read books about healing from this. Listen to podcasts. Go for a walk, volunteer at an animal shelter. Stay busy.
Me: BS 40 Him: WS 51 He cheated with massage parlor sex workersDday 01/19/2021
Kicked him out in 2021 - life is better on the other side. Moved on with the help of a wonderful therapist.
Topic is Sleeping.
