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@WB1340

Using messenger is a good idea, I would recommend.

I would also use a phone app called "hushed". It is a VOIP app with assigned telephone numbers for $5-15 USD per month. It allows multiple numbers and you can change the number whenever you want with a click of a button.

You can give her the hushed number and use it when speaking with her, if the OM gets it who cares, press change and poof.

I use it whenever I don't want people to have my real number, seems to work in most countries I've been in (I've had it for years)

Right now I do not see the need for us to talk on the phone. I've told her what I know. She just asked for copies of the messages I have, I will send them tomorrow

I did ask her to withhold the information I have given When she talks to her husband. I told her I want to see if his story and my wife's match

@WB1340

Guess you're going to know very quickly how much contact there is between your WW and the OM.

I would prepare for your WW to be unpredictable tonight or tomorrow.

I had concerns that POSOM was intercepting my messages to OBS in my story as well. I wasn’t satisfied until I talked to her on the phone, and even then I got push back here that it could have been a decoy. Eventually you’ve got to stop going down the rabbit hole, it’s amazing how fucked things get when you are dealing with liars. But I told POSOM that I would message bomb their home and place of work with every conceivable means of sending my message to OBS such that he couldn’t possibly hope to intercept them all. Very shorty after that I had her on the phone.