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Have you ever had to meet their AP after you divorced?

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:37 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2024

Definitely shown up looking your best and feel it too.
Head high, confident and most of HAPPY!!!! This chick did you a favor. Helped you lose about 200 lbs of dead weight. Know that. Take the high road.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 4:11 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2024

What tushnurse said. It’s the truth.

Also if there’s alcohol, my suggestion is to not drink at all. 🤷🏻‍♀️ One glass of wine and I get very brave. 🤣🤣🤣

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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KindnessHasALimit ( new member #84546) posted at 4:25 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2024

Odd thing to say that your presence would make things uncomfortable. He caused all this. The event is about the two who are being wedd and they welcome you both to be there.

Had a situation where WW and I went to a family event in which her wayward and abusive father was also present. We discused boundaries with the organizer and texted them to him beforehand. We sat on opposite sides and had no contact. It was a little awkward here and there, but we all had fun in the end. No boundaries were broken.

Maybe you can discuss boundaries too and make them known. In order for all to have a good time.

[This message edited by KindnessHasALimit at 4:26 PM, Tuesday, April 30th]

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1994 ( member #82615) posted at 9:34 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2024

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FunHouseMirror ( member #80992) posted at 4:07 PM on Sunday, May 5th, 2024

Since asking your daughter to keep you away didn't work, ex had to send that weird message. Definitely have an amazing time while you're there. It seems the affair partner will be uncomfortable for some reason...

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:41 AM on Friday, July 19th, 2024

Bump per request.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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