Topic is Sleeping.
JammyWheel (original poster member #80828) posted at 6:06 AM on Tuesday, June 13th, 2023
Their baby is now a few months old
OW (now GF as they have been together a long time, he has been gone a long time and is STBX) seems to be apart from the baby a lot
My IC says she probably didn’t want the baby
ie baby trapped him
She is so not a nice person
Neither is he
Sorry to type here I just didn’t know where else to put it
Forks027 ( member #59996) posted at 10:03 AM on Tuesday, June 13th, 2023
That poor child. Also sucked into a sh!tty situation by 2 sucky people.
Honestly what goes through their heads when they bring in another child?
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:38 PM on Tuesday, June 13th, 2023
Hard to watch from the sidelines. That poor child. I hope there are others around who will care for this child.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:52 PM on Tuesday, June 13th, 2023
So crazy yo bring a baby into that mess.
And even though you are removed from it all, it has to generate some odd emotions. Let those ride and then move on.
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Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 6:44 PM on Tuesday, June 13th, 2023
I'm so sorry for all the collatoral damage this people make.
Guess they are hurting themselves too.
BS (me) 56 years. Divorced!!!
JammyWheel (original poster member #80828) posted at 11:27 PM on Tuesday, June 13th, 2023
Thank you
This place is so supportive, I’m grateful
Summertime22 ( member #79796) posted at 11:58 PM on Monday, June 19th, 2023
I can empathise JW. I am in a similar situation. My ex left me for the OW and their baby is now months old too. Luckily I have no ties or contact with any of them. But it still hurts.
It’s hard. But we are better away from them. I remind myself of that daily and one day it wont hurt anymore.
Sending you strength and a hug.
Summertime22 ( member #79796) posted at 11:59 PM on Monday, June 19th, 2023
I can empathise JW. I am in a similar situation. My ex left me for the OW and their baby is now months old too. Luckily I have no ties or contact with any of them. But it still hurts.
It’s hard. But we are better away from them. I remind myself of that daily and one day it wont hurt anymore.
Sending you strength and a hug.
Topic is Sleeping.
