I've read your past posts. You should be guarded. He's a serial cheater,and former inmate,of many years.
Right now,you should be working on yourself, and watching his actions.
What work is he doing on himself to become a safe partner?
He now answers my calls, calls me through out the day and has been less angry
This is not the work. This is being a basically decent person. Answering the phone when you,his wife,calls,and calling you are crumbs. This does not make him a safe partner. Being less angry is good..but he shouldn't be angry towards you at all.
What else is he doing?
Is he in therapy, to adjust to life outside of prison,and to figure out why he cheated?
Was he tested for stds?
Is he fully transparent? Do you have full access to all accounts and the phone? Passwords included?
Does he answer your questions without anger or defensiveness?
Has he dropped all friends who knew he was out cheating,but didn't tell you?
Is he accountable for his time,when away from you?
Is he digging deep into his issues and working on them?
[This message edited by HellFire at 5:43 PM, Friday, January 27th]