Topic is Sleeping.
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 12:53 AM on Friday, December 30th, 2022
Glad to hear from you, looking forward to an update
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
Organic2003 ( member #69811) posted at 7:05 AM on Friday, December 30th, 2022
Glad to hear you are OK! Please take care of your health in these hard times.
May God Bless You,
Organic
There is opportunity in EVERYTHING
FunHouseMirror ( member #80992) posted at 5:02 PM on Friday, December 30th, 2022
So glad to hear that you're alive and well. I was worried about you. Keep your resolve. You know what's right for yourself and your children. Good luck!
Never2late ( member #79079) posted at 5:35 AM on Saturday, December 31st, 2022
Good to hear you are okay. I was honestly concerned for your safety.
Buffer ( member #71664) posted at 7:05 AM on Saturday, December 31st, 2022
Hope all is well and strength to you in these times.
One day at a time
BreakingBad ( member #75779) posted at 3:12 PM on Thursday, January 5th, 2023
Thinking of you, Oxford.
It would be great to hear an update.
You are supported here.
"...lately it's not hurtin' like it did before. Maybe I am learning how to love me more."[Credit to Sam Smith]
RealityBlows ( member #41108) posted at 3:14 PM on Thursday, January 5th, 2023
Welfare Check: How you doing?
Butforthegrace ( member #63264) posted at 1:40 PM on Tuesday, January 17th, 2023
Hello OC, your thread slipped to page 2. Rarely a good sign. Hope you're doing okay.
"The wicked man flees when no one chases."
Sanibelredfish ( member #56748) posted at 3:30 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
Yes, there was a very tragic case in the news recently that is consistent with many of the details of OP’s story. I hope that is only a coincidence.
Lurkingsoul12 ( member #82382) posted at 6:50 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
Sanibelredfish- what case? 
Gettingoveritall ( member #46722) posted at 7:23 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
Edited for anonymity
I hope this is not OP.
[This message edited by SI Staff at 1:42 PM, Thursday, January 19th]
Belle25 ( member #63676) posted at 7:34 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
Oh my. That couple was married 19 years. So was OP. MIL in the house.... goodness.
Hopefully that is just a string of unfortunate coincidences.
faithfulman ( member #66002) posted at 8:10 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
According to his original post, OxfordComma's youngest is 2 and a girl. In the horrible story, the youngest is 4 years old and a boy.
But the story does seem way to similar that it is uncomfortable to speculate.
How horrible this other story is. I don't even know what to say about it.
ryguywhyguy ( new member #82746) posted at 8:16 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
It's not him there are to many inconsistency with the op and this Utah man. Our friend here is probably going through a lot right now. Just pray for him in the meantime.
Butforthegrace ( member #63264) posted at 8:44 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
Among other fundamental differences, in this thread, OP was planning to file divorce. In the incident reported in the news, the husband murdered his family AFTER the WIFE filed divorce.
"The wicked man flees when no one chases."
Greto ( member #80904) posted at 9:46 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
There are inconsistencies but the wife of the OP worked in a school and the wife who was murdered has a degree in child development.
Tragic all around both the OP's situation and the slain family in Utah.
asc1226 ( member #75363) posted at 10:14 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2023
According to his profile his last visit to the site was Jan 9 and the murders occurred Jan 4.
I suppose it could have been someone checking his internet activity but hopefully he and his family are well.
God bless and keep the (edited for anonymity) family.
[This message edited by SI Staff at 1:43 PM, Thursday, January 19th]
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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 1:38 PM on Thursday, January 19th, 2023
When people come to this site, they do so in a low point in their life and the anonymity provided here allows people to discuss the pain more freely and honestly.
When you have suspicions about someone’s identity it does that person a disservice and can possibly pu their safety at risk.
Please give the members here the respect and anonymity they deserve and you would expect for yourself.
Topic is Sleeping.
