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A life changing decision 10 years ago

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 JaelynN (original poster new member #80617) posted at 4:22 AM on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022

A life changing decision I made 10 years ago is one I do not regret.I came out to my mom and 3 younger sisters about something.They knew something changed me during a divorce,ex wife and I did fight a lot was the reason why.Wanted a new chapter in my life and discovered I was a crossdresser going out dressed as female at times with a couple friends.It was also during the divorce was final I found the true me.Was 33 years old at the time and it was a struggle before this happened.Mom invited my sisters and I over for supper one night.Told mom I needed to come out about something and wanted to do this when my sisters came.It was after supper was over,came out I am a crossdresser and was going fulltime once the divorce was final.All hugged me,my sisters said they were looking to have a much happier big sister.Mom said she was going to adjust well to having a son that will become a much happier oldest daughter.All have been there for me for support.After the divorce was final,they met me as Jaelynn for the first time and seen I found my true self finally.

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 5:20 AM on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022

Congratulations and happy 10 year anniversary!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:42 AM on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022

Happy 10 years!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 9:56 AM on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022

I think parents aren’t as much focused on having a happy son or daughter as they are on having happy children.
Congratulations on being you!

"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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 JaelynN (original poster new member #80617) posted at 11:37 AM on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022

My mom and sisters noticed a lot of positive things out of me,one is I am the same person I was before but much happier.Shopping for clothes and shoes is much easier too.

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Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 5:44 PM on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022

Great Life Lesson = be yourself and be happy and don't worry about making others a priority if YOUR happiness is a priority! If YOU are happy, then you have the ability to make OTHER people happy. smile

"Because I deserve better"

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EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 6:01 PM on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022

I am so happy for you. Sounds like you have a wonderful & supportive tribe around you.

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Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 12:06 AM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2022

Good for you. My best friend from childhood told me the most depressing anxiety filled part of his life was keeping his secret for so long, afraid to lose friends and family. When he came out no one had a problem with it and if they did, good riddance. He said it’s true freedom to be yourself. Wear it proud.

Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years

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 JaelynN (original poster new member #80617) posted at 1:21 AM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2022

Also have a supportive transgender girlfriend,bisexual liking transgender women.She is a pre op transsexual and have been together for 2 years with her

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