Topic is Sleeping.
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 2:53 AM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
Hope you had a wonderful day! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:27 AM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 11:33 AM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
Hope it was a great day! 
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 1:14 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
Thank you. It was a good day. Normal but good. And a double serving of chocolate cake and ice cream. May the 4th be with you. All of you.
ETA: That's a nice cake. I could eat that.
[This message edited by steadychevy at 7:15 AM, May 5th (Wednesday)]
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
maise ( member #69516) posted at 1:33 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
Happy belated birthday!! 🥳
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 1:50 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 1:55 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades - Children (1 still at home) Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBS 2018 Cease & Desist sent spring 2021"Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 3:03 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
Happy Belated Birthday
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:15 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
..hey steady
Happy Birthday to you. Is this the BIG 70?? 
Glad you made it this far...after what you've been through!
just read your story..getting the truth years and years later.. 
I know.
Hope the D is going great for you.
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 4:05 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
Hey birthday buddy - sounds like you had a good one as well - High 4 to you!
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:01 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
Happy birthday!
Yes ... the 4 food groups ... chocolate cake, chocolate candy, chocolate ice cream ... and I always forget the 4th: chocolate covered nuts? hot chocolate? chocolate frosting? chocolate mousse?
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 11:48 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021
SMY, thanks. My Story is only the preface. I never did write it out and don't want to now. I don't want to walk that road again. Yes, it's the big 70. Years later - yes, you know.
I missed yours, Chili, birthday buddy. May the 4th be with you and me.
sisoon, chocolate covered almonds. A must have.
Thanks all. Starting another decade.
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
Topic is Sleeping.
