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katmandude54 (original poster member #35992) posted at 5:43 PM on Tuesday, March 9th, 2021
Little-by-little the end inches closer.
Six years separated, six months in the process of divorcing. Case now being sent to the magistrate for a date. With COVID issues in court could take a few more months yet.
ONLY issue, and its NOT an issue, is out 15-year-old. She's been with me the entire 5 years. STBXW has NEVER had her for more than a few hours on a Sunday. She's not going for custody, nor would D want to go there anyway (STBXW is living with her MARRIED AP).
The closer the end comes the slower it seems to go. 
If at first you don't succeed, you're probably screwed.
Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 6:56 PM on Tuesday, March 9th, 2021
Katmandude, I remember the feeling of anticipation and limbo leading up to my divorce. Every extra week felt like forever. But I also remember the flood of relief and happiness when it finally came through. The first day of the rest of your life!
You have been separated for six years, your daughter lives with you, your ex lives with AP. You have all moved on and are settled in your new realities. That seal will only make it official.
Hopefully not too long now. Keep us posted 
Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids
You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 9:51 PM on Wednesday, March 10th, 2021
You are so close Kathmandude! Fingers crossed it goes without a hitch.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
katmandude54 (original poster member #35992) posted at 1:49 PM on Wednesday, March 17th, 2021
Attorney tells me we should be getting a hearing "VERY SOON" despite the COVID backlog. 
If at first you don't succeed, you're probably screwed.
katmandude54 (original poster member #35992) posted at 9:50 PM on Thursday, March 18th, 2021
YES!!!!! My attorney just called: Trial is set for May 12 @ 2:00 pm. THE END IS IN SIGHT!!!
If at first you don't succeed, you're probably screwed.
AsUWish ( new member #77301) posted at 11:06 PM on Thursday, March 18th, 2021
AsUWish ( new member #77301) posted at 11:06 PM on Thursday, March 18th, 2021
countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 4:32 PM on Sunday, March 21st, 2021
3 adult sonsMarried 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021
Life is Good!
Tigersrule77 ( member #47339) posted at 1:20 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2021
Will the trial be the last date? Can the magistrate finalize everything for you that day? Hopefully they are doing whatever they can do simplify things due to COVID.
Westway ( member #71747) posted at 4:36 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2021
Congratulations! Here is hoping there are no hang-ups.
Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
Adira ( member #77327) posted at 11:33 PM on Tuesday, March 23rd, 2021
katmandude54 That's great news!
Me BW, STBXWH covert NPD
2 teenage kids
M: 24 years, together 27 years
3x DDays: 08/2017; 10/2017; 02/2018 with the Hobbit Howorker.
False R: 02/2018-12/2020
Currently in IHS
katmandude54 (original poster member #35992) posted at 1:32 AM on Wednesday, March 24th, 2021
Pretty sure this is the culmination. Meeting with lawyer April 15 to go over finalizing.
If at first you don't succeed, you're probably screwed.
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