Topic is Sleeping.
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 5:33 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020
Thanks for the handy checklist and doing all of the organizing!
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 10:18 PM on Friday, November 13th, 2020
I think I screwed up when I signed in. My name isn’t on the list.
😞😞😞
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 7:08 PM on Monday, November 16th, 2020
I JUST opened my cards from last year! 
I had put them in a bag, and they were in my office. Some how got moved, and hidden!
I am so thankful for this exchange, as it truly warms my heart. I have each year labeled on the tags and look at them with a big ole smile on my face.
THANK YOU ALL!
Now, off to start the glittering!
Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA
Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 4:52 PM on Wednesday, November 18th, 2020
Somebody please help!
I signed up for the Christmas card exchange. I even went back to check and make sure I click the right button.
But I have received no list and no instructions.
Am I supposed to go somewhere on this site to get those lists and those instructions?
I am technologically impaired.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 5:30 PM on Wednesday, November 18th, 2020
Hey WR - the link to the list and the mailing instructions is at the bottom of page 3 of this thread.
I don't see you on there though - maybe shoot a message to the mods?
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 6:34 PM on Wednesday, November 18th, 2020
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 6:36 PM on Wednesday, November 18th, 2020
Well, phooey. I guess I didn’t make it on the list. 😞
Well, there’s always next year!
Maybe by then I’ll be more tech savvy.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 2:58 PM on Thursday, November 19th, 2020
I am going to apoligize right now!!!
I thought I'd be creative, make my own cards...
First batch well, glue wasnt as gluey lol (sticky)
Second batch...SORRY!!! 
Glitter + glue + more glitter...
I'm just praying these dry enough to put them in their envelopes.
I think it would be really funny to go for a covid test right now. Had this glitter container open, knocked it over, the whole thing went POOF like a container of baby powder. I sneezed and out came glitter.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 8:46 AM on Friday, November 20th, 2020
Same here, DragnHeart. Thought I'd be creative and make my own. Bought the wrong materials for the type of card I want to make...
Will try and see what I can salvage this weekend, otherwise storebought should do 
Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 3:44 PM on Saturday, November 21st, 2020
Oh no WhatsRight! Hope you got in touch with a mod. I am finishing and mailing mine this weekend and I’m happy to add one for you in case they can get it to you.
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 6:17 PM on Saturday, November 21st, 2020
Unfortunately we are unable to add names to the list.
It becomes much too complicated to begin adding names from this point.
I hate being the bearer of bad news but it is a lot to coordinate.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 1:14 PM on Monday, November 23rd, 2020
Hey WOE/MangledHeart,
Adress Label says Forth Worth. I'm assuming that must be Fort Worth?
Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 7:31 PM on Monday, November 23rd, 2020
YAYYYYY!!!!! USPS Tracking shows my cards have been delivered!!
Guess they made it to Forth Worth??? 
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 10:33 PM on Monday, November 23rd, 2020
Mine were delivered today too. 
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 10:44 PM on Monday, November 23rd, 2020
Adress Label says Forth Worth. I'm assuming that must be Fort Worth?
Yes, Fort Worth!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 11:24 PM on Monday, November 23rd, 2020
So excellent! The packages of glittery happiness are descending upon Elven territory forthwith.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 12:47 AM on Tuesday, November 24th, 2020
Hope everyone isn't disappointed that I went a little light on "stuffing" this year. That helped me to get them delivered today.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 11:23 PM on Tuesday, November 24th, 2020
Stopped by the post office box today.
LOTS of packages came forth!
It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas.🎄
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:59 PM on Tuesday, November 24th, 2020
Mine will be sent tomorrow priority. Man i am soooo sorry people. All the glue i used DID NOT contain the glitter. My black pants arent black anymore. Amd even after they were all In the envelopes and taped glitter was still flying.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 1:48 AM on Wednesday, November 25th, 2020
In the mail. Warning to the Elves - we may or may not have been drinking when we did the cards. Some may be upside down. May be some editorial content that may or may not need covering up. Sand made sure no glitter was escaping before it got to you. We included Santa's favorites as compensation for any troubles.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
Topic is Sleeping.
