sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:16 PM on Monday, August 6th, 2018
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 1:18 AM on Saturday, August 25th, 2018
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:13 AM on Thursday, August 30th, 2018
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 6:10 PM on Thursday, September 13th, 2018
bump 
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Twistedsoul ( member #65672) posted at 10:24 PM on Thursday, September 13th, 2018
Very nice post thanks for the clear thoughts.
Old Soldier Learning to Fight Another War I Didn't Want
twisted ( member #8873) posted at 4:58 PM on Monday, September 17th, 2018
Still good advice for every BS.
"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
Intown28 ( new member #66070) posted at 2:15 AM on Tuesday, September 18th, 2018
thanku so much for all the great info
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2018
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 6:46 PM on Thursday, November 1st, 2018
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 1:38 AM on Saturday, November 3rd, 2018
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 9:13 PM on Friday, December 21st, 2018
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:35 PM on Saturday, January 5th, 2019
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 8:27 AM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2019
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:36 PM on Saturday, February 16th, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:36 PM on Tuesday, March 5th, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 2:26 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
mchercheur (original poster member #37735) posted at 2:39 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2019
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
mchercheur (original poster member #37735) posted at 2:38 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2019
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:41 PM on Saturday, June 1st, 2019
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:02 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2019
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
