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Wayward Side :
Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)

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hallelujah ( member #32283) posted at 5:33 PM on Tuesday, May 29th, 2012

I loved this post so much when I first read it. I copied it and read it over and over. It was the first time I really felt that someone knew what it was like to be a WS and to offer real advice for someone who wanted so badly to do the right thing. Thank you Maia - I love all of your posts.

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 3:50 PM on Thursday, May 31st, 2012

you're welcome. I love your screen name.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
id 5859341
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BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 3:16 PM on Saturday, June 2nd, 2012

bump for wave

WH - 49
BW - gerrygirl

posts: 6125   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2009   ·   location: Tri-Cities
id 5862881
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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 7:40 AM on Saturday, July 7th, 2012

bump

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

posts: 7926   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2011
id 5915520
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ZenMumWalking ( Guide #25341) posted at 1:23 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012

bump for lostone

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

posts: 8533   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2009   ·   location: EU
id 5950382
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Bobcat5 ( new member #35720) posted at 7:16 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012

Thank you for posting.

ME:50 BH:49
DD #1 09/11
DD #2 10/11
DD #3 1/12
DD #4 5/19/2012
DD #5 7/24/12 broke NC
M: 24 yrs 3 great kids
Trying to reconcile

posts: 17   ·   registered: Jun. 1st, 2012
id 5950861
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BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 2:13 AM on Monday, August 13th, 2012

Bump

WH - 49
BW - gerrygirl

posts: 6125   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2009   ·   location: Tri-Cities
id 5968864
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hopelesshopeful ( new member #36533) posted at 6:09 AM on Wednesday, August 22nd, 2012

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!!

WW (me)
Married 15 years, 3 kids
LTA (EA/PA)
ended 6 months ago
NC except from FOm's BW
DDay for my BH 8/27/2012

posts: 28   ·   registered: Aug. 17th, 2012
id 5983017
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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 12:56 PM on Thursday, August 23rd, 2012

you're welcome.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
id 5984816
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hallelujah ( member #32283) posted at 11:33 PM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012

Bump

posts: 171   ·   registered: May. 26th, 2011
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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 3:57 PM on Friday, August 31st, 2012

for snookie.

with prayers.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
id 5997918
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She-Ra ( member #36033) posted at 11:08 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Bump

Former story began here July 2012
We were mad-hatters. I was a WW first then a BS. Separated May 2017. 2 kids.

Met my new beginning May 2019 just discovered his EA Oct 2020 4 days after we bought a house

posts: 1025   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2012
id 6029768
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snookie ( member #36569) posted at 6:38 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

Thank you maia!!

posts: 116   ·   registered: Aug. 22nd, 2012   ·   location: uk
id 6030510
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sarahsorry812 ( new member #36825) posted at 4:32 PM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Maia -

I'm new to SI and have found it to be very helpful.

This is the first time I've seen this post - I can relate to many of the points you bring up. Thank you for the words of encouragement and the great advice.

SS

posts: 34   ·   registered: Sep. 13th, 2012
id 6033167
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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 2:12 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012

you are welcome.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 12:43 AM on Tuesday, October 16th, 2012

Bumping for a newbie.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

posts: 4962   ·   registered: Sep. 12th, 2011   ·   location: South Carolina
id 6062340
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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 7:50 PM on Monday, November 5th, 2012

Bump for PinchMe.

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

posts: 1840   ·   registered: Sep. 17th, 2012   ·   location: Deep South, USA
id 6089050
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BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 2:04 PM on Sunday, January 20th, 2013

time for a bump.

WH - 49
BW - gerrygirl

posts: 6125   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2009   ·   location: Tri-Cities
id 6184141
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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 5:09 AM on Wednesday, January 23rd, 2013

Bump for etaoin.

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

posts: 1840   ·   registered: Sep. 17th, 2012   ·   location: Deep South, USA
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BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 2:01 AM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013

Bump.

WH - 49
BW - gerrygirl

posts: 6125   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2009   ·   location: Tri-Cities
id 6195444
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