AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 3:44 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:09 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 11:28 PM on Sunday, April 28th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
annb ( member #22386) posted at 9:22 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:01 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:18 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
annb ( member #22386) posted at 4:39 PM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:03 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 12:23 AM on Monday, May 27th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:37 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:32 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:49 AM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:01 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 2:15 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 1:10 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:55 PM on Saturday, August 3rd, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 9:41 AM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:13 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:48 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
mixedintherut ( member #40330) posted at 4:55 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Bump. I do wish this was a sticky or a permanent post, so that the new people could find it very easily. I have been here for almost a week and just now seeing it!
DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.