annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:24 AM on Tuesday, June 21st, 2011
NoNoNo ( member #31091) posted at 12:52 AM on Tuesday, June 21st, 2011
Bloody Marvellous!
Thanks so much. I agree it should be in the healing library and always on page 1. Am pasting it into Word for my perusal as I work through the steps.
Thanks!
Me: BW
DD: 7 Jan 2011
OW: Former friend of a friend. Betrayed me on many levels.
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:06 AM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
cdnmommy ( member #30182) posted at 7:00 AM on Wednesday, June 29th, 2011
Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing
annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:05 PM on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 6:06 PM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 4:28 PM on Thursday, July 7th, 2011
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 7:12 PM on Sunday, July 10th, 2011
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 2:18 AM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
bump 
annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:54 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2011
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 4:28 AM on Tuesday, July 19th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 2:29 AM on Thursday, July 21st, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 2:49 PM on Thursday, July 21st, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 2:49 PM on Thursday, July 21st, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:15 AM on Friday, July 22nd, 2011
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 2:23 AM on Sunday, July 24th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 11:16 PM on Wednesday, July 27th, 2011
bumbed ( member #31024) posted at 11:31 PM on Friday, July 29th, 2011
I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.
25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening
MrsSprky99 ( member #32895) posted at 5:29 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2011
This is a truly WONDERFUL post....thank you so much for taking the time to share it with all of us!
BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 53
Married - 14 years
3 Children - 25, 24 from first relationship & 10 y/o with WH
D-Day: June 11, 2011
annb ( member #22386) posted at 7:16 PM on Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011
