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The Birthday Thread!

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steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 9:11 PM on Saturday, November 25th, 2017

I's getting close to 4 years that I've been on SI. I only came to see what this thread was just now. So now I know how the Birthday Greetings come about.

Mine: May 4, 1951

BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020

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BlueNC ( member #61468) posted at 11:30 AM on Tuesday, December 5th, 2017

December 16th

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undertherug ( member #41580) posted at 10:47 AM on Wednesday, December 6th, 2017

June 9

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2ManyMigraines ( member #61851) posted at 7:01 AM on Sunday, December 17th, 2017

March 4th

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GrowthMindset ( member #61918) posted at 4:17 PM on Saturday, December 30th, 2017

January 4th

Me: Choosing happiness
Together 22 years
3 children
DDAY 1 9/24/17 PA 14 months - ongoing
DDay 2 12/28/17 EA/PA trickle truth 2x (Aug 2016) w mutual family friend. I was the only one in dark.

"We move forward by creating a life we love"

posts: 174   ·   registered: Dec. 21st, 2017   ·   location: San Diego
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 BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 2:00 AM on Tuesday, January 2nd, 2018

Updated to here. Happy New Year!

{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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Carrie2013 ( member #61336) posted at 5:10 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018

[This message edited by Carrie2013 at 4:56 AM, January 31st (Wednesday)]

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1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 5:25 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018

March 24

Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for

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whoami16 ( new member #60932) posted at 7:44 PM on Friday, January 12th, 2018

March 16

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OneInTheSame ( member #49854) posted at 9:18 AM on Monday, January 22nd, 2018

Almost upon us . . . January 24. Same as John Belushi.

(I edit to correct typos)
I am the BS in a lesbian marriage. My WW's ex-girlfriend was the AP.
D-day of the 6 mo A was 10/04/15
We are doing okay, but by now I wanted it to be better

posts: 2535   ·   registered: Oct. 6th, 2015   ·   location: Pacific Northwest
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WithMyEyesOpen ( member #59243) posted at 11:15 AM on Tuesday, January 30th, 2018

21st June.

Big 30 this year. Hopefully I'll be feeling up to celebrating by then.

BW 31YO
WH had EA with COW through 2017.
Thought we were R, but he carried on pursuing her and she developed feelings for him too.
Divorce finalised end of Sep 2018.
DDay #1 15/2/17
DDay #2 21/1/18

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Muggle ( member #62011) posted at 7:22 PM on Sunday, February 4th, 2018

February 2nd 1963. I turned 55 a few days ago, and had my 2nd DD on my birthday, the first DD was on Christmas.

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StrngEnough2Bend ( new member #62702) posted at 3:32 PM on Tuesday, February 13th, 2018

New to SI....

36 on June 27..

FWH 41

DDay 10/2/17

Together 6years

Married 2years

Well on our way to R with help of counseling...glad I found this site 💗

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psychmom ( member #47498) posted at 6:21 AM on Friday, February 23rd, 2018

Today is my BDay! Feb 23 and I'm closer to 60 than I am to 50 Been on SI for nearly 3 years now; 7 months from my initial DDay and I can't imagine now what I did in those early months. Somehow made it this far!

BS (me); fWH (both 50+; married 20 yr at the time; 2 DD DDay 1- 9/13/2014 (EA)- 3+ yrsDDay 2- 10/24/2014(PA2)-July'14-Sept'14DDay 3- 11/12/2014(PA1)-Oct-Feb '14Reconciled

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 BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 10:28 PM on Thursday, March 1st, 2018

Ok so its the Beginning of the month and I see some new people here, so Welcome!

I am updating the list and all the March birthdays are added to my March list, so I will get you just in time.

(February birthday too)

{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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Lavender0916 ( member #59280) posted at 6:27 AM on Monday, March 19th, 2018

September 16th, go figure

BW - 46; STBXSAWH - 58
D-Day 1st 6/30/16; 2nd 4/30/17
3rd 7/6/17, 4th! 11/17!! 1/6/18 Escorts, False Recoveries, now separated and filed for D- whew

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fscon ( new member #63148) posted at 3:21 PM on Friday, March 23rd, 2018

NO SOLICITING

[This message edited by SI Staff at 9:40 AM, March 23rd (Friday)]

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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 5:37 PM on Friday, March 23rd, 2018

May 2nd (date I joined!)

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

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AnyWhoX ( member #62868) posted at 9:51 PM on Wednesday, March 28th, 2018

January 21.

I am the BW
Married in 2004 (13 years)
D-day 2/17/18

Silence is golden unless it's from a kid or a woman, then you know all hell is about to break loose.

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 BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 2:39 AM on Sunday, April 1st, 2018

Updated

{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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