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Something of a dilemma….and very minor. Extra points for responses that help me laugh through this

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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 8:50 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

The more you post about her,the more she sounds like the OW in my situation.

I responded much like you..basically ignoring her.

What did that get me? She stalks me. It's been over a decade. She even found me here. My ex friend told her I posted here. Unfortunately, I had recommended this site to that mutual friend, who came her as a new BS. She is no longer a mutual friend, obviously. Ow signed up,as a ws,cried she was being abused,etc. She wanted me to out her,so we could have it out,finally, on this very public forum. I refused.

Eventually, ow messaged my adult daughter, and sent her pics and details. It was horrific.

If you don't find a way to get her to leave you alone, this will continue, and she may end up doing the same thing when your kids become adults.

Personally, I'd leave this running group. Find another. The havoc she could bring isn't worth it.

[This message edited by HellFire at 8:52 PM, Friday, August 4th]

But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..

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 Ladybugmaam (original poster member #69881) posted at 9:52 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

Ok….those scenarios are horrific. Glad to know I’m not alone. Grateful for the validation. So sorry we’re all here.

After my Sept race, I’m not sure what will be next. As for finding another training group….it really doesn’t matter. If I don’t run into ow while training…it’s at the grocery store or other random places.

Started logging my messages of "do not interact with me" and her interacting just in case I need to take this to court.

Thank you all.

EA DD 11/2018
PA DD 2/25/19
One teen son
I am a phoenix.

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antbee ( new member #80981) posted at 4:47 PM on Sunday, August 6th, 2023

Standing that close to you, she's risking you turning around quickly and accidentally bumping into her, possibly knocking her to the ground. Or getting hit in the face when you turn quickly to point at something. Would be a pity if that happened.

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 Ladybugmaam (original poster member #69881) posted at 8:49 PM on Sunday, August 6th, 2023

Won’t lie….nice to imagine…..but I’m not gonna try to be like that in front of her children.

EA DD 11/2018
PA DD 2/25/19
One teen son
I am a phoenix.

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 Ladybugmaam (original poster member #69881) posted at 1:11 AM on Thursday, August 10th, 2023

Lol….so tonight she made a big batch of cookies for the group….and walked around offering them to everyone….including me. LOL……I’m seriously going with, this is a pathetic individual who can’t face that she did something so bad as I wouldn’t like her.

I didn’t take the bait. Much as I practiced many a scathing comment. She had her kids with her. I’m not going to do that.

But, who does that??

Gonna wish her peace.

EA DD 11/2018
PA DD 2/25/19
One teen son
I am a phoenix.

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SacredSoul33 ( member #83038) posted at 1:25 AM on Thursday, August 10th, 2023

That's making me think of Limp Bizkit's "Nookie".

"You can take that cookie and stick it up your ass." laugh

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Remove the "I want you to like me" sticker from your forehead and place it on the mirror, where it belongs. ~ Susan Jeffers

Your nervous system will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven.

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