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Happy Divorced day to me 💪

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 BigBlueEyes (original poster member #71441) posted at 2:19 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

1 year today I got legal confirmation of a brand new beginning,

1 year today my ex got legal confirmation he could no longer abuse me under the pretence of marriage!!

I will never forget

Everything I have gone through,

All the times I pushed on even though I thought I couldn’t,

All the mornings I got out of bed no matter how hard it was,

All the times I wanted to give up but I got through another day,

I’ll never ever forget how strong I was & still am,

I’ll never forget I’m a motherfudgingbadass!!!!

Thank you SI & all that had a hand in getting me to where I am today....you literally saved my life

As for my Ex....fuck you from the bottom of my heart

Me- BW, 47
Multi Dday's,
DB A's x 2 BFF
Multi ONS's, Online shit.
Serial cheat, Abuser,
D 18.02.20
Stay strong, just because it’s hard today, doesn’t mean that next week it won’t get easier!!

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 2:32 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

I remember your story - you ARE a badass! And congratulations on your freedom!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

posts: 16592   ·   registered: May. 1st, 2006   ·   location: Somewhere
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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 2:41 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

(((BBE)))

You ARE a motherfudging badass for sure!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

posts: 3914   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2018   ·   location: Louisiana
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skeetermooch ( member #72169) posted at 2:57 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

Big congratulations, BBE!!! You are a super hero. Thank you for sharing.

Me: BS 56 on DDay 1 - 7/2019 DIVORCED - 1/2021

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 3:10 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

Happy day! Treat yourself!

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:13 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

You deserve the good life you are living! So happy for you!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 6192   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
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HeHadADoubleLife ( member #68944) posted at 3:47 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

Awesome BBE! Congrats on 1 year!

BW
DDay Nov 2018
Many previous DDays due to his sex addiction

Hurt me with the truth, but don't comfort me with a lie.

Love is never wasted, for its value does not rest upon reciprocity.

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barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 4:13 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

fuck you from the heart of my bottom

Sorry, this needed fixing.

Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.

posts: 5419   ·   registered: Aug. 31st, 2016
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twicefooled ( member #42976) posted at 5:21 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

Excellent <3

May 29 2021 ***reclaimed myself and decided to delete my story with my ex because I'm now 7 years free from him and mentally healthier than I've been in years.

*********When you know better, you can do better*************

posts: 492   ·   registered: Apr. 2nd, 2014
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countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 5:59 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

Yay!!

3 adult sonsMarried 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021
Life is Good!

posts: 531   ·   registered: Oct. 25th, 2016   ·   location: Colorado
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BobPar ( member #62993) posted at 6:00 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

Happy Div Day!

DDay 1 (AP1) and 2 (AP2) 2015 DDay 3 (AP 3) and 4 (AP4) 2016There was some overlap with 3 and 4)False R 2016Suspect more from exWW

posts: 542   ·   registered: Oct. 9th, 2016   ·   location: MI
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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 6:45 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

You are mighty! You are righteous! You are onward!

(Oh yeah - and I'm flipping off whathiswhozit for good measure).

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

posts: 2237   ·   registered: May. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: Reality
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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 6:55 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

This made my day!!!

((((BBE)))) Onward, girlfriend!

Me-58 FWH-60 Married 40 years 9/2/2023 grown daughters-40&36.14yo GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); 12yo GD & 7yo GD(DD36). D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 10:24 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

Woo hoo poop!! (My phone keeps auto correcting to add "poop", so forget it, I'm leaving it)

Yaaaaaayyyy

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 10:45 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021

My phone keeps auto correcting to add "poop", so forget it, I'm leaving it

Is your phone possessed by a 9 year old boy?

Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.

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Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 7:56 AM on Friday, February 19th, 2021

I will never forget

Everything I have gone through,

All the times I pushed on even though I thought I couldn’t,

Surviving infidelity & divorce kinda makes us heroic doesn’t it?

Congrats on your anniversary BBE

Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids

You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop

posts: 639   ·   registered: Jun. 23rd, 2016   ·   location: UK
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WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 12:12 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021

Duplicate

[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 6:13 AM, February 19th (Friday)]

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 12:12 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021

Is your phone possessed by a 9 year old boy?

"Poop" is my younger kids' ultimate insult. So yes, I believe so. In this case, we will use it to refer to BBE's XPOS WH

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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 BigBlueEyes (original poster member #71441) posted at 1:59 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021

Awe thank you everyone, I really appreciate your great wishes 😊

I’ve reclaimed all other dates/days slowly & surely.

Not this 1 though, it’s the 1 day/date I WILL celebrate & remember in my future 🎉🪅🎉

Fuck you from the heart of my bottom

Haha brilliant!!!!

WhoTheBleep, haha love it..thank you for leaving it 😂

Me- BW, 47
Multi Dday's,
DB A's x 2 BFF
Multi ONS's, Online shit.
Serial cheat, Abuser,
D 18.02.20
Stay strong, just because it’s hard today, doesn’t mean that next week it won’t get easier!!

posts: 674   ·   registered: Mar. 11th, 2019   ·   location: A tiny dot in a big 'ol World
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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 2:15 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021

OMG BBE! You are FREEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!

I am so happy for you. You are the epitome of Bad Ass. Whatever you wore to those proceedings [even if it was PJs and the proceedings were virtual] - that is my new favorite super suit.

Cheers! Fist Bump! Happy Dance! Whatever SuperHero handshake you come up with! YOU ROCK.

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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