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Triples (original poster member #72068) posted at 2:00 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2021
At exactly 1PM EST I will sign some documents that will officially end my marriage.
I am relieved, but also a little sad. In my case, Divorce was necessary, but it is still an official end to something that at one time, was my everything.
It is also a very clean break and a start to who knows what!
My kids have been adjusting well, and I will do everything in my power to keep that momentum going.
I thank everyone here that extended advice, 2x4's, and well wishes. Who knows where I would be right now had I not found you all!
DanielJK ( member #75654) posted at 2:03 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2021
Good luck. I am right behind you.
Look at it as being free of infidelity. You are free now.
Infidelity is an awful thing, you can now put that awfulness behind you and look forward to better days.
BH 51
STBXWW 53
2 daughters, 14 and 16
Filed for divorce 12/23/2020
After a year of hell I finally moved out (5/26/2021).
Divorce still pending.
nothisfriend ( member #53171) posted at 3:34 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2021
Best wishes for today. Life is beautiful on the other side.
Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2021
Getting out of infidelity is the goal, and congratulations on that!
Things will start to get better from here.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 4:56 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2021
Send mojo your direction today. Glad the process part of this is over for you. Hoping you're scheduling a little something for just you - an extra time slot of self care or pampering or a something.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
Marz ( member #60895) posted at 11:27 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2021
Good for you.
Now you can start your next life.
Triples (original poster member #72068) posted at 1:23 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2021
Yep! I didn't realize it until this AM, but my divorce became officially exactly 4 years from dday (to they day)!
The deed itself was uneventful-which is sort of interesting when I consider all that went into the wedding.
Bigheart2018 ( member #63544) posted at 3:33 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2021
Blessing to you and your kids!!! You deserve the best in life!!!
Bigheart
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