After being gaslight for months, I find the texts
Hi, everyone
I found this site and see it is a wealth of information.
I'm glad I'm not alone in this one.
Brief background: Married for the second time. The second wife is much younger and we have two small children. She decided to stray from the marriage shortly after the second child was born, getting a boob job and other cosmetic changes to make her more attractive physically. I always had the suspicion that she was beginning to look for a replacement and after being gaslight for months, with her telling me I was paranoid and should take medicine, I found texts between her and her boss, complete with dick pics and full frontal nudies from her in the bathtub. The latter were taken just behind a closed door while my kids and I watched TV. Class act. Just don't know what to do.
The kids are very precious.
My parents tell me to focus on the kids and ignore the wife. She's pursuing a fantasy. Take care of yourself.
Any suggestions from those that have been here?
Thanks
C
23 comments posted: Wednesday, October 23rd, 2024
