Life was a fool's paradise.

Can he love me yet cheat me?

Hi everyone

I constantly think about my WS and I have a question..

Can a man be in total love with you yet go out and have an affair?

Are men capable of that? Can they complete their responsibility at home yet go out and have an affair?

13 comments posted: Friday, November 15th, 2024

Hello everyone.

Hello everyone.

It's been 4 months since I have seperated from my husband. I don't regret leaving the house. I don't have any kid.

I am pretty sure I am not going back. But the complete and utter loss of the love, the companionship, the power of having a house of my own is all lost.

I still love him and he has been outstanding throughout the relationship. Just that last couple of years he changed and started the affairs and behaviour also changed. Yet he tried to complete all his responsibilities towards me.

But what he did was not a mistake. It's a crime- exposing me to physical ( STD), social and psychological trauma. So I decided to leave.

But due to the previous good actions of his. And general life, I don't know how to put it. I miss him. I miss the house, my things... I keep crying at odd triggers.

Just sharing. Don't know when will I get out of this.

I do find support here in this group.

Thank you for being there.

12 comments posted: Monday, October 28th, 2024

Fear and guilt of leaving the cheating but in other aspects caring husband

I am going through a phase where I feel guilty and wonder if I have taken the right step in getting out of a cheating situation. I am soon going into extended family and going to break the news to the world and I am afraid of being judged. I don't know how to handle the situation

7 comments posted: Thursday, September 26th, 2024

Fear and guilt of leaving the cheating but in other aspects caring husband

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0 comment posted: Wednesday, September 25th, 2024