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Hi all, I'm new to this site, but not new to finding out my partner's infidelity. I've been "starting over" since August when our lease was up and we moved away from each other. Cheating was definitely frequent for him even before we married and I'm sure throughout our 14 year marriage. This last time though was the LAST time and I had proof via our security cameras. What really made it something I couldn't come back from this time is just 4 months before my father died very tragically and I was at his house cleaning it out, my husband was supposed to meet me there to help move furniture that I couldn't on my own. When he didn't show up and wouldn't answer my calls I just decided to go back home to which I found multiple forms of evidence from his infidelity that night. I felt like I was was kicked and beaten while I was already down.

Although I moved away August 1st, I'm totally heartbroken, I'm lonely, although I moved back to a place I lived before it seems like my friends from here all have gone different directions and I really have nobody. We have a teenage daughter that has been uprooted and in the same boat with friends so it really sucks with both of us being down and depressed.

On top of it all I work in the music business and seeing firsthand rampant infidelity has just been awful. I love my job, music is my life, but the sex (with people other than your spouse), drugs (drinking) and rock 'n roll is so true :( I'm super depressed thinking I'll never find someone that is actually true to me, I'm in my mid 40s, married twice (both ended because they're cheaters).

3 comments posted: Wednesday, November 29th, 2023