Me: BH Early 50's
Her: WW Early 50's
D-Day Nov 2020
Married 21 years before D-Day
3 children
Working toward reconciling. The most difficult thing I've had to do in my life.
Wife has moved to D!
My story isn't very complicated and some here know it, my WW wasn't really doing much work to help R and so I've been basically battling her to up her game and meet me at the table.
Yesterday I basically told her that if she's not in, and isn't gonna be in, then let's just rip off the band-aid, I'll understand, and I'll be fine. I don't want her to be unhappy.
So today she basically tells me she's done. Wants to move toward D. In house seperation until she can move out next month.
I'm shocked, not terribly surprised as I was thinking it was inevitable (I mean it takes two to make it work!). But I have to process how I feel about it. There's a lot coming at me here.
I really feel like I did all I could. The only thing I couldn't do was rugsweep. It was probably inevitable.
Thank you all for being here. I don't talk much about this to my circle of friends because I feel like a beta male. But I'll get over that now as I start putting something else together.
I'm a bit shocked for now, things will have to sink in here for a bit...
24 comments posted: Sunday, May 23rd, 2021
