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Sex for Sex Sake Question

A post in JFO coupled with a post here about NSA sex/hook ups has me curious...

Can you have sex just for the sake of getting off or can you only have sex with someone for which you have an emotional bond? Yeah sex feels good and all (if done correctly lol) but is the actual act something you can do for no other reason than carnal pleasure?

Since this is my post I'll be the first to chime in...

I cannot fuck just for the sake of fucking. I've never had a one night stand or a fling. I just don't think it would feel as good with someone I don't have feelings for or not know very well. I think people who are in it just to get off put less effort into the act itself whereas those who know each other's bodies well and have that connection will put their all into making the other feel as good as possible - and there's something incredibly sexy when you know your partner is doing just that...giving their all.

Thoughts?

As for me my New Beginning is literally JUST beginning so I'm in no shape to fuck anyone at the moment.

10 comments posted: Thursday, July 22nd, 2021

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