Me: 43yr BS
Him: 45yr
Married 13yrs
Kids: 4 beautiful children,B13yr,G12yr,B11yr,B10yr
D-Day #1 6-29-05
D-Day #2 6-30-05
R-Day 12-12-05
WOW, I think I see a rainbow peeking through the clouds! We will see!
10 years later …..
It’s been 10 freaking years since I found out he cheated (multiple times). I stayed bc I had young children. They are all grown up now. I’m working on setting myself up financially to get out. We have NO relationship. I sleep in my own room, which is HEAVEN! He is a narcissist, no, never diagnosed. Narcissist usually aren’t bc they don’t think they are the problem. I’ve lived with his abuse for 26 years. Years of emotional, and financial abuse. I’m tired! I’m mad I stayed! I’m just over it all.
I’ve been working on ME for several years. He had the chance to work on himself also but he stayed the same. It’s very exhausting to be anywhere near him.
Not sure how much I’ll be on here. This brings up a lot of anxiety from the past. Just needed to be in a safe space.
3 comments posted: Tuesday, May 14th, 2024
