Me BS-33 now 51; Her xWW-27 now 45Dated 7/97-6/99 M 6/3/99MC 3/03 D-day 1/17/04 Sep 2/3/04I Filed D 4/13/04 D final 5/26/042 month after, she co-signed prop mortgage w/ OM

Justice in the world

Maybe there is justice in the world.
I don't like to admit it, but after my divorce I would search for my exWife on the internet to see if there was anything about her. I don't know why. Maybe it was a sense of punishment for me. Once in a while I'll look again just to see.

My exWW gave up on our marriage so she could pursue a relationship with the OM back in 2004.
She denied this at the time, but I knew her. We'd had issues previously in this realm. Well she ended up marrying the OM in 2006, so I knew my suspicions were correct.

My profile gives more of the story.

She was hoping to be a novel writer...crime, supernatural, etc. Over the years I found out that she had published a few books & had them on Amazon. And that she liked to use pen names to do this.
Anyway Over the weekend I searched and found out things that I guess might suggest that there is justice in the world.

One thing led to a website & then to a pen name, and I found her blog.
I started reading it in dread. But the tone was different. A lot of it was a kind of self pity...about life, relationships, etc. Writing in a such way as a release of emotions and feelings.

The OM had filed divorce on her & left her. This was back in 2018. Four years ago.
He has already remarried since then in 2020.
She talks about love lost, how she was treated like trash on the side of the road....about how she let herself be taken advantage of....blah blah blah..bull$ht. That she had to leave the property they bought together, she had to move in with her mom, etc. She left her job as a LEO. Then moved to another small town.....so she could heal.
I guess over half her blog is about her relationship with this guy.
Only one mention about our life. That in her first marriage, she didnt take it seriously & that she was a bad immature wife.
I guess she was looking for readers to give her a hug & pat on the back.

To be honest I was happy when I read it. Finally she got what she did to me. Too bad I found out about it 4 years later.
She was someone that at one time I wanted to be with forever, love, care about....
BUt the writings just prove that she was the same person that left me. A very independent (not really sure if this is true), alpha-like woman....that doesnt need a man to be happy,,,blah blah..

If I ever had a message for her, I'd say....
"Just wanted you to know. After all this time, I still feel you are a horrible person.
I hope you feel this sadness for the rest of your life.
Because you hurt me & left me like a piece of garbage you talk about.
I wished I had never met you & let you into my life."

7 comments posted: Tuesday, August 9th, 2022