Simple ( member #18814) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 10:06 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 4:17 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 6:27 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley
Blackhair ( member #39451) posted at 9:41 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
M: 10 years both late 40s.
3 Children
DDay: April 2013
Legally separated on Oct 2013.
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:46 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Drowninginitall ( member #40968) posted at 6:42 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013
Thank you! I am saving this so that I can remind myself and I will one day send it to my H.
BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 12:00 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:22 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:18 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:07 PM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:47 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
torn2bits ( member #28376) posted at 3:12 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013
This is one of my favorites.
Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 4:03 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
catatonic ( member #40758) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 2:43 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2013
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 5:29 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2013
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:31 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:36 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.