Panopticon72 (original poster member #85106) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Sorry: this is just an unhelpful vent.
Just feeling very sad today that so much work now has to be done to repair our marriage beyond the work of just keeping a marriage and family alive anyway.
I am an old romantic, but I never would have cheated. Never. I just feel sad and tired WH chose this route for us.
Thanks for being out there and giving me this space.
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 6:47 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
You've been heard.
Sending hugs.
No need to apologize for hurting.
I understand
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 7:09 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
You have been heard. It’s such an unfair injustice there are many ups and downs in the healing journey.
There are no such thing as an unhelpful vent. Many others are feeling the same thing at the same time. We are here to help you through it and it will help many others at the same time.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
Webbit ( member #84517) posted at 9:42 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
This is the place to be for a vent and you never need to apologise.
I’m sorry you’re having such a rough day (or two or more). I agree, that sometimes the enormity of the situation just feels to much and thought of how much work is needed to heal a broken marriage is exhausting. No wonder we feel all the emotions!!!
It is also so hard and unfair when you love someone so much with all your being and they just hurt you in such a despicable way. And it’s not fair that we as BS have to suffer for their shitty choices.
Virtual hugs sent your way 💚
Panopticon72 (original poster member #85106) posted at 10:22 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Thank you so much for the messages. So appreciated. X
