Topic is Sleeping.
MySonshine (original poster member #32252) posted at 10:00 AM on Monday, January 1st, 2024
I’m so hurt. My older 3 children are texting about the possibility of D. They think I’m the reason for D, but they don’t know about any of the affairs. How much do you tell kids? I tried to have a family meeting and my 8 year old (who doesn’t have a phone) was the only one who would talk/ ask questions. WS said absolutely nothing.
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Too many DDs to count.
Jajaynumb ( member #83674) posted at 11:10 AM on Monday, January 1st, 2024
Sorry you’re here after being betrayed and now have to put up with being the bad guy because your kids don’t know the truth.
How old are they? Maybe you can have 1:1 conversations. If your kids are young adults they can know the truth. Younger kids should not be lied to but they need to know what’s happening in age appropriate terms.
You didn’t cause this it’s not your fault. However, don’t fall into the trap of saying bad stuff about their dad to your kids. It’s very damaging to them.
https://library.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/661294/worse-than-hell-yes-its-all-true/
Topic is Sleeping.
