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The Book Club :
Good book for healing alone?

Topic is Sleeping.
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 Okokok (original poster member #56594) posted at 10:51 AM on Friday, January 27th, 2017

I read, it's kinda my thing. I've read all the popular books for dealing with A together.

So what if your WW is really your STBXW? What's a good book to help me out in trying to heal my own pain without the help of a partner?

I have Love Warrior but haven't read it yet. Is there something better?

Erstwhile BH and BBF. Always healing.

Divorced dad with little kids.

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Lynrobroy ( member #56900) posted at 12:51 PM on Friday, January 27th, 2017

"Radical Acceptance" by Tara Burch(sp?) was really helpful for me in trying to come to terms with him not being the person I thought he was.

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Me: BW
Him:WH
Dday 10/17/16
Happily Divorced

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:42 PM on Friday, January 27th, 2017

"The Journey from Abandonment to Healing" is very frequently suggested. I haven't read it myself, but I thought it worth mentioning just based on what others here have said about it.

The book that was most healing for me was "When Things Fall Apart" - Pema Chödrön

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Hawke ( member #47517) posted at 3:51 PM on Friday, January 27th, 2017

I like "Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends" by Bruce Fisher. I am just starting "The Journey from Abandonment to Healing" and loving the first chapter.

Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)

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sillyoldsod ( member #43649) posted at 7:14 PM on Friday, January 27th, 2017

I like "Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends" by Bruce Fisher.

Seconded.

I've never met a sociopath I didn't like.

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Topic is Sleeping.
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